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Speaker offers advice on confronting a friend

Speaker offers advice on confronting a friend

From Call Her Daddy

1h ago
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Everything. Thinking I'd feel so lean and ready to go on my new life journey. And you're like, that was a really, really expensive way to just quickly get an answer of like, yeah, no, I didn't need to blow up my life. I just needed to, like, make a couple changes. And maybe the couple changes was like, don't go to the same coffee shop that you're gonna run into him at. That was all you had to do. And maybe go out for dancing every Tuesday night and do some salsa with the girls. Yeah, that's all you needed. It's good things to think about. Over here on Call Her Daddy. Just trying to stimulate that brain because half the things I bring to you guys, it's things that I've thought about. Trust me. Oh, my God, guys, if you had met me in college, I was constantly like, I think I need to do xyz. And then obviously I would call my mother and she'd be like, first of all, thankfully you don't have the finances to make that life changing decision. So just humble yourself constantly. And if you don't humble yourself, have a friend or a family member that you know will humble you and they'll get you right back on track. Anyways, let's humble ourselves even more and let's answer some questions. Question number one. Hi, Daddy. One of my close college friends moved to my city two years post grad and ended up moving into my house because we had an open room. I've been inviting her to hang out with my friend group, but recently found out she was talking about me to one of them. Now, I don't want to feel obligated to keep inviting her, but it's awkward because we live together. I also don't want to seem like a mean girl since I'm the only one who initially brought her into the group Help. I think you need to confront her. I think you just need to go in and be like, hey, I am so happy you moved here. I remember when you called me, like, I was so excited and it's. And I'm so happy that, like, you ended up being able to move in because we had the room and all of it. But I need to be really just direct and honest for a second and I want to have an open conversation with you. I don't want to have an attacking conversation, but I do need to awkwardly address this. I did. It did get back to me that you were talking shit about me in my friend group. And I am really hurt because I feel like I have not even in like a pat on the back way. Like I've included you and made you feel so, I hope, comfortable by all the things of including you into my life when you moved here.
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