Jessica shares her fears about her boyfriend's fidelity
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He just said family stuff. And I just. It's so vague that I don't believe it, honestly. Yeah, I think when people are gonna cheat, if you're gonna cheat and tell me running errands, at least come back with, like, a banana or something. Like, don't come back with nothing. Try to play it off a little bit. Like, there were times where I walked past the guest room and he was on the phone with someone, and I asked him who it was, and he said, nobody. Like, no one important. Okay. I'm trying to think of, like, yeah, I don't want. I always hate jumping directly to, oh, they're cheating on you. But in this case, like, trying to think of what else he could actually be doing that. This is very vague and uncomfortable. I'm so sorry. Is he acting different towards you? Well, yeah. Like, I think because I've been kind of very anxious about it. He's been reassuring me, but it feels like he's lying. So, like, I feel like for me, it's mostly like me feeling this gut feeling that I can't trust him right now. So I don't really know what's going on. I'm just really frustrated. And, like, this is what I think about all day, all night, it's about to blow up, honestly. Yeah, I mean, I would be thinking about that all day, too. And all day, night. Like, where is he going? What is he doing? What's going on? Especially if he's not telling you anything. Does he get irritated with you when you start to ask him questions or anything? Because, I mean, if you're feeling anxiety, he's got to be picking up on the fact that if he's sleeping another in another room, that's uncomfortable. Does he ever, I don't know, give you attitude or is he just normal? Yeah, like, sometimes he does because I keep mentioning it and he. He just tells me again and again, like, it's no bun, it's no one important. It's like, he's not cheating on me or anything. But then I can't. I don't trust him right now. I just don't. Yeah, that all sounds really off. Yeah. Right in the middle of To Catch a Teeter. And if you're just joining us, Jessica is on the phone. And Jessica thinks that her boyfriend of four years named Lyle might be Che. So we're about to call him and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards member at and say that every single month, we choose one lucky rewards member who gets free flowers delivered from our Florida apartment. And we'll see if he sends those to his girlfriend, Jessica or to somebody else. But before we do that, Jessica, why don't you catch us up on your situation? Hi. Yeah, so my boyfriend has been, over the past month, been taking phone calls in the middle of the night with someone I don't know, and he shuts his door, and our guest.